Assuming that both are attractive and super close to each other, do you think that you'd be able to be friends with someone of the gender you're attracted to without ever thinking about making this into more? If you choose not to go beyond being friends, what would your reason most likely be?
- Yes, absolutely!85%(23)70%(35)Vote52%(12)
- No, there will be feelings at some point.15%(4)30%(15)Vote48%(11)
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No. If they are attractive to each other at all, as they get closer and their friendship deepens, at some point, one of them will look at the other and think "I already deeply care for this person, and I find them attractive. Why I am Looking elsewhere for romance or love, when I have someone I am this good with, right here?"
And because feelings will usually only come from ONE of them, and not the other? The friendship gets weird, and ends.
Friendship between two attractive, heterosexual people of opposite genders will either end in hurt feelings and going separate ways, or a relationship.
And judging by girls in your poll? It is usually the guys who find themselves falling in love, and girls working to stay intentionally ignorant of how he feels, because they are OK with how things are.1