So long story as short and sweet as i can. I met him when we were 12 (we are not 21). I've been in love with him for as long as I can remember. We dated a little bit longer than a year in high school (when we were 15 till we were 16) We broke up but decided that our bond was to strong to go our separate ways. Since then he goes back and forth between seeing other men and hooking up and seeing other women. We fished Highschool we were eachothers prom date and we even won - " most likely to always be best friends" and "most likely to get married". Since then he moved away for 2 years and we were both in relationships (him more than me). When he tends to date people it never lasts more than 3/4 months. Anyways he moved back home 9 months ago and since then we are back to our inseparable selves. We text 24/7, and hang out 3-4 times a week or more schedule permitting. When we go out places people think we are a couple because we are ALWAYS flirting.
Anyways recently I've been very confused because when we hang out he makes a lot of sexual jokes with me (more than before) and it makes me unconformable because sometimes I just want to blurt out that I want to sleep with him. For example - we were in the book store and he picked up a sexstrology book and was reading our compatibility in bed and he was like "yeah that sounds about right". We have also been joking a lot latley about living together , and how if we are both single at 30 how we would get married because it would work out.
I just want him to be my man. But I don't know if he would consider dating me again based on past comments of not looking for anything serious right now. BUT hanging out with him kills me because I just want to hold his hand, kiss him and tell him how I feel. I feel like he is the "ONE"
Just looking for an outsiders perspective on this situation! Is he playing mindgames with me? Is there anything I can do?
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wow... ummm the best you can do is make him feel the same way, you know him for quite a while right? you must know what he likes and what attracts him, use that knowledge and give him so hints. for that story i dont know if you are in the friendzone or not, you may because when a guy dates a girl that it was their friend and then broke up they do what happens in the story, they go back together but we sometimes try to resist going back together, maybe he fills the same way but doesn't want to hurt you or beleives the same way. so you have to broke that idea by being direct or by make him stop resisting0
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