A girl called me a player, after i stopped all contact from her when she didn't treat me with respect.
Does it mean a good thing when she calls you a player coz she feels that you have the charm and style to date multiple women at the same time..
- Yeah it means a good thing, she perceives you as being wanted by women. She feels you have what it takes to charm women.9%(3)21%(12)Vote41%(9)
- No its not a good thing, she is indirectly abusing you. Player = slut.91%(32)79%(45)Vote59%(13)
Most Helpful Girl
She's calling you a male slapper. So no its definetly not a good thing, she's making it sound as if you like to sleep around. She had no right to call you a player if you didn't do that. She just sounds really cheesed off because she didn't want you severing all ties with her and probably doesn't want you going with any other women. Sounds like jealousy. Do I detect that she might be a tad possessive too? You made the right choice if she's not been treating you with respect, you dodged a bullet.1
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Most Helpful Guy
Okay man, listen.
If you are really a player, then it is a good thing and if you are not and she ended the relationship with you and called you a player, then it's not.
She's hurt and she'll call you anything which will come in her mind. Now, people will tell you that it's a bad thing because you're manipulating, but you mentioned that she didn't treat you with respect and that's why you took appropriate action. That's very good. It means you value your worth.
And as you said, it means you have a charisma. It means girls are attracted to you. She's inferior and jealous.
A lot of (all) girls voted B because of obvious reason... "who'd want to get her pussy used?". That's why. No big deal for you. Enjoy the world. Live your life to the fullest. And don't give fucks.
If she wants to tell other girls about it, let it happen. This is not a mere criticism, but also a free publicity and that's gonna help you getting more girls.
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