Just from what I've experienced and observed, it seems hard to get guys to ask girls to go on a formal "date" anymore. It seems hookups and hanging out seem to be more common. And what does it mean when a guy says he wants to "hangout" anyway? Please elaborate
Most Helpful Guy
Honestly I think it's because most guys don't feel good enough to ask women out. This is an age where people want the absolute best, especially in their future spouses. If you're ugly, and don't have an ideal body why would you approach women to begin with knowing the answer is most likely going to be a no? Marriage and divorce also carries with it a huge risk. I understand wanting a stable relationship and a family environment to raise children in, but divorce and alimony can ruin a man's life. Also, with dating apps and sites, sex has become much easier to find. Why risk randomly approaching women, when sex is just a few swipes and messages away on the internet?1
Most Helpful Girl
Yeah I've noticed that too. I'm single right now. I do get asked out on " dates" but I usually turn them down coz all they want to do is "hook up" I'm not into casual sex. That's not what I'm looking for.
I guess I'm traditional. I love the idea of going on a proper date. Spending quality time together. Getting to know each other, and having fun and going to a variety of places on dates.4
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