So I'm half- white and half-black. My feminist white mom thinks having a racial preference is racist, sexist, extremely shallow and inconsiderate. She also thinks most black women are single because our media has a European standard of beauty and brainwashing us to think black women aren't beautiful. She thinks I like white women cuz I have been brainwashed into liking them and I do have control over who I'm attracted to. How can I convince her that racial preference is a thing?
Most Helpful Girl
Who is she to judge? She fucked a someone of a different race to make you.
You can't change her views, but tell her "brainwashed or not as long as she is a lovely person and I'm happy the fact she is white shouldn't matter to you. You cannot tell me who to date, I'm old enough and mature enough to date who I want without your permission"
Also the problem isn't that she is a feminist, it's the fact that she is ignorant.0
Most Helpful Guy
Well it doesn't sound like your gonna convince her to be honest, I'd just be like I'll date whoever is best for me don't say anything about saying you prefer one race cos she's just gonna instantly think racist. Just don't think about it and if you end up dating a white girl just say it wasn't because of racial preference.1