Therws this girl lets call her Lucy. And a guy named zayn
Lucy likes zayn but she is only 16 and Zayn likes lucy but he is 28. Lucy lied about her age and said she was 23 and dresses older than she looks. They did things together ectt. Lucy loves him but is afraid to tell him her age or anyone about there relationship. What should she do?
Most Helpful Guy
Tell him she only lied because she loves him and wanted him to love her and she didn't want them to split up and hope he understands how much he loves her.1
Most Helpful Girl
What you did was for your own selfish gain and that's something you can't deny. The truth is you lied because you didn't think he would be interested in you because you're a child. That tells him you don't value him or his opinion and you have disrespected him.
You have to tell him your age as he will find out eventually. When he does you will lose him. The sad part about this is now he will wondering what else you lied about? What other hidden secrets do you have? This will open up a whole lot of doubt in his mind where none had existed before. The trust in your relationship will gone and its very hard if not impossible to get back.
Lets not forget there will be social and legal ramifications for a man of his age dating a 16 year old.
You are way too immature to date at all let alone mature enough to be dating an older man.