I've been getting rejected so much for the past 3 years that i'm done with trying to find a girl. I don't think im a loser because im going to a 4 year university to become a teacher and is currently working retail to support myself financially. I have people tell me im cool, fun to be around, and a great guy. The ladies still seem to turn me down though. I Don't act needy in terms of texting or calling because ima busy guy nd because I don't want to come off as needy. I think i'm average looking/borderline ugly, but I try to be confident when I talk to girls as well. I've done so much to help me get better at getting girls, but I still get the " lets just be friends" speech by most of them. I've also had girls show interest in me at first and then they go cold on me for some reason. I don't know what it is, but im ready to throw in the towel. I;ve been suffering way too much because of this. I don't want that anymore.
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I've been through a phase like this where girls liked me but I still got rejected. The way to sove this is to move things forward more quickly the next time a girl shows interest in you. Also, don't forget to appear open: smile, steal glances that sort of thing, otherwise they'll assume you're not interested. Try flirting with some girls you're not in love with but feel attracted to: things are a lot easier when you don't put them on a pedestal. This will give you the experience and confidence you need the next time you fall in love. Finally, I didn't do this, but a lot of guys in your situation do, if you're only going for 9s and 10s stop doing this: try an 8 or a 7.0