My boyfriend won't allow me to express how much I love him?
I've known my boyfriend for almost 4 months and been dating for almost 2 and everytime I try to do nice things for him he just shuts it down all the time. I've offered to bring him lunch to his job and he's always trying to make me not do it. In his last relationship he was hurt really bad and everytime I want to show him I love him he pushes me away. Why is that?
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He's probably not comfortable yet to show you to the public like that.
Maybe it's not usual in his workplace for that to happen, and he can be afraid of what others might think.
I think it's a normal behaviour about that lunch thing.
Don't make him feel that he is the only thing in your life. Don't make him the very first priority about everything. That can come off as being clingy, despite you having the best of the intentions and I see that.
Not everyone likes that display of affections. Some people are more quiet about their feelings.0