I'be only dated women that it turned out were just about ready to start going to therapy and I'm starting to worry about what that says about me?

Am I so unwantable that only a woman who was broken and hitting rock bottom would want me?

Am I just an empty placeholder because they need someone, anyone to make them feel less broken?
Should I just stop investing so much of myself in other people and live alone if this is the best I can do?


What Girls Said 1

  • You're being unreasonable. It just happened that such women fell for you. It's a coincidence.

    • More than once, the common thread is me

What Guys Said 1

  • why are you so unwantable? what makes you like that?

    • I don't know, I really try as hard as I can to do for any one of them whatever I could to like me... But as soon as I've invested enough to make her/them feel some self worth, and I could tell, she/they pushed me away