We've been together more or less 4 months now and It's really starting to annoy me. Some time ago she asked me to talk to her more (Generally I've only texted her at night and do my thing during the day unless I found an actual reason to talk to her) and I decided to do that. The issue I have is that I don't get into relationships without aiming for long term stability. I'm a relatively Intelligent and introspective guy, I think a lot, I need my girl to actually talk, able to have conversations instead of me being the pillar of conversation entirely. She claims she is afraid of me judging her and if she says the wrong thing It will make me like her less, I can't buy that drivel. I suspect her vapidity is a cover up for something else.