1. Drinks 5-8 drinks daily (bar then at home)
2. Lives with his mom
3. Smokes pot
4. 1/2 his monthly income goes to his recreational habits
1. Holds a decent job
2. Has a kind heart
3. A great guy overall
4. Treats you very well.
5. Educated, smart
Was married, then lived on and off with ex. girlfriend.
I didn't want him to move in with me till I get to know him better.
So far this is what I learned about him.
Most Helpful Guy
Sounds like me! But I don't drink daily. I only drink like that on weekends about every other week. The only thing that strikes me as a little odd is I'm 22 and you're 36~45 so I'm assuming this guys not 22. At 22 I often feel like I'm doing extremely poorly for myself and it's easy to blow my expendable income quickly because I make very little. But if I'm still like this years from now I'd probably hate myself.0
Most Helpful Girl
Move on. Drinking, pot, spending 1/2 his income for recreation. Not going to change.
Some women marry a man (or are just with a man) and expect them to change, or think they they can change them. The person you marry is the person you marry, not one you want or expect them to be. If even half of your list is something you can't live with - walk away. You're setting yourself up for heartache - not to mention he may tap into your funds - even if it's just you paying the entire rent while he lives rent free.
Did he ask to move in with you? I'm sure he wants to get out of his mom's house.