the point if the question is you have to choose 1.
why don't you like eating out?
well , any reasons.i dont like what mot places have to offer. too much salt fat sugar etc. i dont like other people handling my food.i dont lie people waiting on me, it makes me uncomforted. rather do it myself.i dont enjoy eating with people. im not crazy about eating in the fist place. it usually means i have to stop doing something interesting to be less lean than i was before. i definitily dont lie eating while taking which is what happens going out to eat with someone. i dont thin prices are in any way reasonable. one dinner can feed me for a week--unless i want food poisoning, which i dont:)now. going to to eat to me means as a social event which i dont like. but technically, i dont like eating 'inside'. i make food and eat it outside, or buy stuff only machines touch. I hate being indoors and i hate kitchens. Feels suffocating.
oh im also vegetarian so there's not a lot of options unless its a lot of cheese or grease or both. frying is often done to make up for whatever flavor is supposedly lost in committing meat from the course. eating out is arduous and expensive so for me there's no drive to do so.
lol, why can't skinny guy gain weight? that's a hell of a lot easier than an obese one losing enough
In a way yes and no. Obese medically is a lot of people who are thin. Lol I'm 5'7 and was 160 and was told I was obese but wore a size 8. I'm 135 now. So, imagine a athlete or football player could be termed obese by his weight but he doesn't really look it and is active
I don't think they could be considered obese, isn't it based on excess fat not just weight?
Weight, unless you got to a specialist where they measure your body fat vs muscle they'll telly out your obese. Hence why the whole overweight, underweight, obese thing isn't dependable
"Obesity is a condition where a person has accumulated so much body fat that it might have a negative effect on their health. If a person's bodyweight is at least 20% higher than it should be, he or she is considered obese."
"obese: grossly fat or overweight"
Yes and they go by your height and weight, But that alone cannot tell you how much muscle vs fat you have. You know when you get yourself weighed at the docs they have a chart with height vs weight
laugh out loud
Wow so sweet
not just fat, obese. they're more than a little slow. plus, to get to that point of being super beefy is unhealthy.but anyway, lol at you saying they whine about being too small or too fat.. I've seen bodybuilders whine too :p
True, although they're less likely to. Of course all are unhealthy, that's why they're extreme, but the muscular one eats good food, gets plenty of exercise and plenty of sleep, the only unhealthy part is the steroid use, but out of the three they'll be the healthiest.
do bodybuilders even eat real food? it seems to me they just take tons of protein powders. but really any of them could be eating good, healthy food. just that the underweight one doesn't eat enough calories, and the obese one would probably be eating too much junk food too. the bodybuilder could even be eating too much junk food but exercises so much that it's turned into muscles
About 75% of bodybuilding is diet. You have to eat well to gain muscle, and the goal of a bodybuilder is obviously lots of muscle with low bodyfat. Eating junk only builds fat. They can eat some junk maybe once or twice a week, but mostly they have to eat clean. They use protein powders because they're quick and convenient when you need to get some quick protein e. g. right after a workout you need to get protein to build the muscle, quicker to drink a shake than to go home and cook. They get most of it from food though, most don't have more than 2 shakes a day, the ones who do drink loads of shakes won't get big and don't know what they're doing. Bodybuilding takes a lot of planning.
I recently read on here how excessive body building may not actually be all that healthy from all the muscle torsion and tearing, especially in later years.
@Psi_Unknown it's not healthy for many reasons
Well I'd still say it's healthier than starving yourself or sitting on your ass all day eating shit.
why not obese or bodybuilder type? I'm actually surprised so many guys chose that
I'm not sure, I think that it's because personally i don't find masculinity very attractive in a girl, and i ften prefer petite girls, and from those 3 extremes that is the closest i can really get haha
ok. I'm just curious. although petite just mean short. so she could be petite and buff or fat, it doesn't describe weight
oh ok, sorry i misspoke, i meant small/ skinny
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yea, I find bodybuilders unattractive too.
not just heavy, obese. and I never said the underweight one is anorexic or doesn't like to eat.
I'll still take the second one as I have all my life.
But the reasoning could go the other way too: If a big meal is served, the thinner girl would not eat much while the obese girl would eat more.Rationality is a *beep*.
@Psi_Unknown how much a person eats isn't all that determines their weight.. many fat people actually eat less. they end up that way from being lazy. the underweight person could easily be eating plenty, but just have a freakishly high metabolism or exercise too much.
That's right @asker. Up til 3 or 4 years ago I could and often did eat as much as two people of my size and couldn't gain a pound. My motabolizm was wide open. Now all that has changed for me. In the last 2 years I have tacked on 20 lbs. I stay plenty active and work as I always did.
that's the point of the question.
the exaggeration, I mean.
the point of the question is that you have to choose one of those extremes, not something in between.
OK I'll refine it then. A big body building hunk so that he can lift me without putting his back oot. Lmfao
lol, yea I like when a guy is strong enough to lift me up too! ;)
haha, I can't imagine a beefed up bodybuilder type in one of those roles ;p
if you think about the weight of full plate armor they were the body builder type
huh? he'd be the most unhealthy of all those. there is no natural way to get like that. he'd have to be on steroids or something. the too skinny one is the one that could possibly be somewhat healthy
Underweight is not healthy. Obese sure as hell isn't. The beefy bodybuilder doesn't have to take steroids to be beefy. He probs has a good alimentation and healthier lifestyle. That's my opinion
no, it isn't healthy. but of the three, it's the most likely to be "healthiest"
and to get to the point of being a beef bodybuilder they do have to take something. the human body can't get like that naturally
hmm, ok interesting logic. but what's to say the obese one won't get smaller over time?
LMFAO! You don't know too many obese people, do you? It's certainly not impossible for people to lose weight over time, but if you're playing the odds, the natural tendency is for weight to increase as the years and decades pass. Take a look at your average classroom of college students and compare it to your average room full of middle-aged office workers.
you can't really compare those two. college students are still having fun running around because they don't have too many responsibilities, whereas the middle aged worker probably has a sit down job, kids and spouse that drains most their energy away and so gets little to no exercise.
That's exactly why you can and should compare the two. It tells you that all else equal, people tend to get fatter and as they age. Knowing this, you're better off with someone who's starting out a bit underweight because chances are they'll grow into it a bit more. If you start with someone who's already obese, it's not a good sign for the future.
not really. it depends on the person. everyone in my family seems to only get fatter right after having kids, then skinny again.
Yep. It does depend on the person. But for the vast, VAST majority of people, the general rule laid out in my answer will apply.
lol, ok. no need to yell. ;)
LMFAO! Sorry! I mean, lmfao! :D
huh? I meant you yelled when you typed VAST
I know! So I figured you'd think I was yelling when I wrote LMFAO! That's why I apologized and wrote lmfao! :D
haha, smart ass! ;p
LOL! Glad you're amused! ;-)
For me I'm just very into weight lifting myself. I'm assuming the guy isn't doing steroids or drugs lol
oh, ok.. I'm pretty sure the only way they can get that big is by taking steroids or something similar
They can get pretty big without steroids.
but not super beefy big ;p
But a big as @consultantisback which is pretty huuuuge. 😀
consultantisback is on steroids.. also, he blocked for some reason, so he can't reply
Oh lol. No he's definitely not on steroids. I have many workout buddies of similar size to him. They just have to focus on diet a ton and have to lift in very specific ways. A guy on steroids is typically easy to spot.
wait, you like women to be super skinny/underweight?
Yup. Ever since high school, that's been my preference.
interesting. what body type are you?
Average to skinny.
I wouldn't expect that from you. lol
Because skinny guys I am thick my size 14 and I probably hating hug him. If he too big than I feel kinda of gross huging a guy that big. at least the body builder would be bigger than me to not make hugs akward! lol
lol, all about the hugging
Yes it determines everything!
everything? like what?
like how I would get along with physical speaking. I just rather have someone bigger than me so I can be small lol!
why is her having a degree important?
Because I'm sapiosexual.
ok, I'll have to google that later
Sapiosexual literally just means attracted to the human species. Not attracted to intelligence. Dont know what the word for that actually is though.
@ikissedtheskyonce That is exactly what I thought when I read it as well. lol
Oh would you look at that, a link to an online dictionary. Im not even going to check that link. Do you know what sapio is? It means human. You are human sexual. Congratulations.
My comment had nothing to do with your definition of sapiosexual, I just don't believe for a second, that you care that little about physical experience. That is the type of thing people say to make themselves sound less shallow than they really are. Of all the people I have ever meet that claimed to be what you are claiming, not once has it ever been true.
@BaileyisDarcy Sapio = from Latin verb 'sapere' (to know)
I studied Latin in HS during 6 years. 4 hrs/week
@BaileyisDarcy thus others may be into bestiality? :o
I don't like underweight or obese women
haha, that's what you like anyway, huh? ;)
i want the asthetics the V the size... not the monters size bodybuilders on juice
I've been historically more attracted to heavy women than women who are underweight.
I just think it's the lesser of the evils that you provided. Lol
That is the one I picked too. In modern times being overweight and storing calories is not as important as it once was.
any particular reasons?