Hey, give some nice guys a break. I'm a nice guy and I have to deal with that problem, because some women want to date ignorant brick heads and then complain about it online. As a result we nice guys are left sad, cold, and alone.
@ZeatZed For one, complaining about how women tend to choose guys other than yourself won't do anything in your favour. Can you really blame some women for generally preferring guys who actually approach them or are able to carry a conversation pretty well, over guys who are supposedly angelic and huge charmers, though are seldom heard from? (literally)
We do approach and speak to women. Or at least i do usually. It's the stereotypical things people say online that give nice guys problems when it comes to women. Am i arguing that the men you described are not at fault for their own loneliness? No not at all, but generalizing a whole group of people is pointless when there is a lage amount of deviance between the individuals. Nice guys aren't always the quiet ones in the corner. I try to approach women as often as possible around my university campus. So yes i can blame a woman if she picks the brick head over the guy that's actually trying to make a good impression.
@ZeatZed are you saying that the 'brick heads' are at fault for being chosen over guys like yourself, then?
Would you define desperate based on his looks, or what he writes?
@Sjdjdjdndnxx What he writes. I don't think how a guy looks can be called "desperate," if we're just talking about his natural looks. Although sometimes the pictures a guy chooses can look desperate.
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