I am really confused/hurt/sad and overthinking about a girl.
I had fell in love with a girl, she did not feel the same way about me. Unrequited love.
So I was very hurt, and slowly would get over her, then relapse, and that cycle continued.
I slowly saw how incompatible we would be, and we are just very different people and if we did have a relationship it would be nothing but problems.
If there was an opportunity to date her, and be in a relationship I don't think I would go for it.
But at the same time, I still have feelings for her and love her. I am really confused and have never felt this way before.
Has anyone else had feelings for someone they don't want to be with?
Any input into what is going on? Any advice?
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It may be that you genuinely love her but realise its unrealistic to be together. Your love doesn't blind you to reality. You know in your heart you wouldn't be happy together. Sometimes we do love the wrong person , because you can't be together due to having different goals in life, and incompatible in many ways.
It seems the only thing standing between you both is reality. Your heart hasn't clouded your own judgement.1