I mean like if you get jealous or angry do you keep it too yourself until you're officially together. Are you on your best behavior in the beginning?
- Yep I act totally different at the start32%(8)26%(9)Vote10%(1)
- No I always show what I'm really like52%(13)63%(22)Vote90%(9)
Most Helpful Guy
Look at that poll... at the girl's answers... then they wonder why the guy dumps them when they feel like the relationship is going great... or after he said he "loved" you.
How can you expect to keep someone when you are lying to them about who you are? They fell in "love" with the lie, when you showed your true side, they didn't like it.
Most Helpful Girl
i don't want to date someone if they aren't going to want to deal and love the real me, so i try to put some things out there at the start. i told my boyfriend pretty early on about the things that could easily scare some guys away - i see a therapist, i'm on meds for anxiety/panic attacks, my last relationship wasn't very good but my ex told me that i am crazy. i just felt it was important to warn him of this stuff early, that way i wouldn't invest myself in someone who wouldn't like the not so nice sides of me.
jealousy and insecurity i try to keep under control all the time, but yea, i would say i do try to keep that quieter and more hidden in the beginning for the sake of not coming off as clingy.
overall i would say i try to just be myself. i don't want to put in time and effort with someone who runs at the first sight of anything less than perfect.0