Seeing this guy and the last weekend he spent about 8 hours with me and now this weekend same thing asked him his plans he has a family thing which is no prob. But he says my friend is going to an expo so I'll thing I'll go with him. And said if I'm free and your free I'll come up. We've being seeing each other 2 months.
I'm honestly so angry I'd rather tell him not to bother at all. What would you do if you were me.
- Dump him36%(4)36%(5)Vote33%(1)
- Explain that it's not ok to leave me bottom of his list9%(1)7%(1)Vote0%(0)
- Let this one slide36%(4)36%(5)Vote33%(1)
Most Helpful Guy
so wait because he wants to do something with a friend he's on your sh*t list?
seriously this is too much. a boyfriend is not your pet that tags along everywhere or vice versa. no matter what you two are individuals. he needs to and should be able to go do things without you and vice versa.
i didn't vote because none of the answers really apply. the best answer is that you need to change your outlook no this to understand that he can and should be able to do things without you and vice versa0
Most Helpful Girl
Why do you have to spend every weekend together? Last weekend was 8 HOURS and this weekend his friend has an event that probably doesn't happen often, so he wants to go.. it's not like he stood you up, you just asked him what his plans were and he told you. But clearly you're still important to him because he still wants to come see you after.0