We were together for almost two years. He told me I was the love of his life. After his father died he started to change and spent his time drinking and partying with his friends and I got left behind.. We got into a horrible argument and broke up last year we got back together about a month later but after 2 months he got distant , he told me loved me and wanted things to work but he wasn't happy anymore and he didn't know why. Since the 8 months weve been broke up we didn't have that much contact just a few text conversations, I drunk told him I missed him and he told me he missed me too and always thinks about our good times but doesn't think he could go back. I told him that i respected his decision and we talked for a few days and then he stopped responding so after two attempts of starting contact I eventually gave up. That was a few months back and the other day I text him asking how he was and that I found something that reminded me of him, he replied saying he was grand and he talked about his mam and said he laughed when he read that message. I got scared and didn't respond to it. A few days later my friend said she saw him out drunk and he asked how I was doing. She gave out to him and asked why he wants to know that he obv doesn't care about me. (Not cool on her behalf) so i text him apologising for her and he said he didn't remember talking to her and that it was OK and not to worry about it. We texted back and forth for a few messages (with hours long in between - I work 12 hour shifts and I'm not sure why he spent so long replying) but when I replied last night he didn't respond anymore. I really miss us and was wondering if I have a chance to slowly reconcile or is he not interested anymore? I still love him after all this time I just don't want to scare him away that's why I'm trying to be friends first but I don't know how :(
Advice on my ex boyfriend?
What Guys Said 2
move on.. walk away...0
What Girls Said 1
Girl, I think you should move on. You obviously still have feelings for him, but it would be best if you leave things as they are.0
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