I met this girl over a week ago and I am very interested in her. Lots in common and we have a great time talking or hanging out together. She has been to my house a few times to watch movies and she also even invited me to meet her family at a cook-out. She says she is interested and she says she likes the way I look and she also says she wants to take things slow which is cool. Just seems like I am doing all the calling or texting. Kinda makes me feel like she is leading me on. We have plans for this weekend which is great, but why does sh not attempt to call me or text me?
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if you're finding that you're always initiating communication, I suggest that you STOP! I know that you really like this girl but it's high time that she learned that if she wants to see you again, then she's going to have to work for it as well. I know women like it when a guy calls first. it's flattering to know that you're desirable and being thought of. she 'says' that she likes you but her actions don't really add up to what she's saying. so if I were you, don't try to contact her, at least for a week. I know it seems a long time but it's a waiting game and you need to be patient. you don't want her to start thinking that she has you at her beck and call. show yourself a little self respect and her as well by showing that you should also be waited on. so let her start wondering why you're not calling. sooner or later she'll cave in. if not, then just move on. you are not a waste basket and you shouldn't exude that by the constant calls and texts. otherwise she'll start thinking you're needy and unstable.
you've done more than your part. so now, just sit and relax. keep yourself busy and have the fish take your bait.
i hope I didn't sound offensive. I know how it feels like to be waiting on the phone and doing all the work myself. so from experience I'm just offering my advice so that you don't end up feeling taken advantaged of. I sincerely wish you the best of luck.