I've come to the conclusion after being rejected for 100% of the time throughout my adolescence and now into adulthood that it is due to my looks. I'm guessing women find me unappealing and as a result they have no interest in me no matter what. I suppose my looks have also caused me to be unable to create friendship. It's honestly been difficult seeing as how I have been diagnosed with severe depressive disorder, social anxiety, severe anxiety disorder, and panic disorder. So my question is if i am ugly should I just give up now? What's the point if it's all for not. I'm very intelligent which has allowed me to become a sophomore in college at 18 and on track to a graduate program after my bachelors. I volunteer, donate, help the poor and elderly, but what good is it if I'm not even good enough for anyone? Can I just give up and be alone if all society cares about is looks? I'm healthy and do not have hardly any fat on my body. I'm 5'11" and yet I'm not good enough? I refuse to go under any surgery to "improve" my looks simply because I refuse to change myself to please society. So what do you think? Should I give up or not? Is it right that I'm alone? Or are you just someone that just doesn't give a damn?
Most Helpful Girl
It's not like you're not good enough for them, it's that you're too damn good for them. They don't deserve you if looks are the only thing they care about.0
Most Helpful Guy
Would you mind posting a photo so we can see what you look like. That would help judge if there is something we are missing.
But I can tell you for a FACT... females don't really care that much about looks, you are mistaken in your interpretation of why you are being rejected. Yea, I know what you hear and sure they'll always go for a good looking guy. But... I can give you a reference to men of similar traits (as you've explained it) that is now highly successful with females or caught really attractive women who are not attractive and socially odd. You do not understand females yet so you've made a false assumption... you are projecting your male thoughts onto them. No wonder, you are only 18, took me til 48 to figure this out!
The #1 for females: You project self confidence and you are your own man! #2 they can develop an emotional connection with you. This is all in the Bible Genesis 2 if you can learn to dig it out.
If you have the disorders above you note, then that is the major part of the problem... you likely don't project positive energy, confidence, don't know how to emotioanlly converse with them, etc.. so they shoot you down fast. What you need is training and education. Use your superior intellect to dig in and really understand women, work on your self confidence, develop the right attitude so you can approach women and engage them in conversation.
I can direct you on how to do this and you'll be a rock star and can start picking the girls you want... no kidding. I would like to see a photo though and before I help you further, I 'd want to know more about your intent if I was to help you become successful with women.
It isn't hard, but it will take time to learn and practice, fail, and develop yourself.