I don't date or even approach women but it's not due to a fear of rejection, I have another reason. I am a college student and pretty much broke from all the tuition and other bills I pay. Dating costs money, something I don't have a lot of and with what I have left over it's enough for me to do something on my own. I have been asked out by women but due to me being old fashioned I didn't accept their offers to pay for a date. I personally feel since I am broke, I shouldn't be dating until I have some money saved up. Is this the right thing to do for awhile?
Most Helpful Girl
Occasionally dating doesn't have to cost a lot of money, think about that jumper or that t shirt you're gonna buy in the future a date could literally cost that much, after the date you can explain to them you're tight on money so hanging out indoors would be much preferred, and most of the time if they want to go out they will offer to pay if they know you're in this situation. However if thats your only fear (the money thing) then thats not a reason to not date anyone, its about putting your priorities in check and its great you're working towards paying off school, but women don't want to hear a lie, just tell them the truth.0
Most Helpful Guy
tough situation man, i don't know, maybe explain to them you want to go on a date but you can't afford things I don't know, you can have fun without expending money, plus whoever likes you won't care about money. A walk in the park sounds like a pretty good date to me.1