Nice guys don’t finish last, they actually finish best. They get the lifelong mate and stable relationship from women of quality. The not so nice guy may get the one night stand and short term flings with trashy girls, but they will never have a stable relationship because they keep treating girls like crap.
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As a former NiceGuy™ myself, I completely DISagree with this.
The confusion likely comes from the fact that there are not 2 categories (NiceGuys and BadBoys), but rather 3, with the third being GoodGuys. Tons of NiceGuys believe that they are GoodGuys (or believe that they are the same thing), but they are very different. Here's how it breaks down:
BadBoys - Lots of confidence (and often charisma), but poor morals and self-centered.
GoodGuys - Lots of confidence (and often charisma) and good morals. Takes no crap, but avoids problems and helps others when possible. This is a relatively rare breed, and more so today as there are fewer and fewer role models to help guide the creation of GoodGuys in the next generation.
NiceGuys - No confidence. Usually good morals, but try to make up for their lack of confidence with tons of "extra niceness" which they expect to be rewarded for with relationships and/or sex - almost always to their disappointment.
Girls do NOT want NiceGuys, even though they'll often say "I want a nice guy." She's ACTUALLY referring to a GoodGuy, NOT a NiceGuy.
Yes, GoodGuys end up with a good girl and a solid relationship most of the time. NiceGuys often end up alone or in bad relationships because they settled for a girl with serious issues rather than be alone.
Girls want a GoodGuy - a take-charge, lead-from-the-front decision-maker who has some ambition and drive, and, yes, who has good morals too. They do NOT want a guy who lacks self-confidence, never makes a decision, and would never tell her "no", because she won't be able to RESPECT a guy like that, and no matter how many roses and Hallmark cards and diamond earrings he buys her, or mixtapes he makes for her, she's not going to respect him - and "no respect" means a very DRY vagina.
When women say they want a NiceGuy, they are either confused (and really mean a GoodGuy, and perhaps don't understand the difference) or they are lying/in denial. Most women want a GoodGuy - and some want (or think they want) a BadBoy - but no one wants a NiceGuy.1
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GOOD GUY ALWAYS FINISH!0