Something you really like. It has to be an action like maybe bringing you flowers or knowing your favorite song and singing it too you (albeit poorly) or something.
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It is ultimately necessary for that person to have self-awareness. If I am dating someone and they engage in too much small talk I will assume they are dull and have nothing special to offer a relationship. The people that I've met in the past that have stayed in my circle of friends are people who are smart and have a "curious" disposition; they are people who can truly look at themselves and identify where they are doing well and where they need help. These people, to me, are people who succeed. That is what I look for in someone I am dating.2