I recently gotten into a argument online with this guy (not going to say his name), and he said that he would only marry a virgin also that guys and girls weren't equal in sex, and that "If a girl had 10 partners no decent guy will go near her, and a guy can sleep with 20 girls and still score a decent, quality girl." So basically what he was saying that no guy will want a girl if she wasn't a virgin, he also said that all men were like this... I'm just trying to see what other males think about this. Now this leads me to my question, Men does the fact that a girl has had sex before make her undesirable? I also want to see what girls think about this.
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It's the ridiculous slut Vs stud debate. Now, asking this question... you may get bias or sexist answers. My boyfriend thinks that if either a male OR female sleeps with 20+ people, it's disgusting. I don't think being a virgin is a MUST for marriage. I slept with 5 guys in total. Truthfully I think the 4/5... we used each other! Lol. This guy sounds like he has unreasonable expectations.
If a girl is BEING used, assuming these guys want a relationship with her--then they don't, it's the guy's fault. Let's also assume this girl is going to college and has a job. This girl isn't some "hoe" she is just naive and trusts easily. Now--if she has no car, no job, and parties a lot... she could be easy. She has no self respect and isn't trying in life.
If a guy has a girl on the side, and sleeps with random girls, has no job, no car, and does drugs--he's a man-slut lol If he has his shit together, and still does this--he might be bored OR too busy for real relationships. He would be a "stud" in my opinion.
See what makes a "slut" or "man slut"? No self respect, no ambition, desire to win at sex, Obsession with being obsessed, need to be center of attention, sometimes into drugs or partying, need to brag to friends, low self-esteem and issues with parents! ROCK ON!1
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