So I went out on a date with this guy that I met on Match back in March. We seemed to really hit it off, a lot of laughing, liked the same type of music, same hobbies etc. When we were on the date he looked at me at one point and said "you are so cool it is making me nervous" then later on in the date as I was leaving he said "you just bleed confidence don't you?". The second comment I didn't really take as a compliment but the first one I sort of did. Anyways I never ended up hearing back from him, so a month later I just sent a text to him like "I am bummed I never heard back from you but I wish you good luck in your search". No response. Well two months after that I saw him on tinder, curious I swiped right and of course we matched... since I was the last one to reach out I was not going to message him on tinder. I know he saw we were a match, anyways after three days he then unmatched me. Lol I am totally lost on this one. Maybe he swiped me by mistake? But why then not unmatch me right away?
Most Helpful Guy
Who cares? It's over move on. Forget about this guy. The reason why he never contacted you back is irrelevant.0
Most Helpful Girl
Of course you know this is not going well? You only went on one date, and he might have liked the person you are but something happened or he did not feel any chemistry. Those two things are compliments but aren't necessarily screaming, "I like you so much". He may have swiped you around the time you were talking to him and before you went out, not sure how Tinder works and if swipes last that long. No matter what happened he clearly is not interested in talking either way though, so try not to overthink it and continue moving on.0