im in a long distance relationship with a girl who I am HEAD OVER HEELS in love with. I can't stress enough how crazy I am about this girl. But I havnt seen her in 6 months, and she took this new job so I dont even get to talk to her as much and I've been finding that very difficult.
So I'm at this party, and get chatting to a girl who I find very very attractive. We click and there's a bit of flirting happening. I tried to avoid her and talk to other people but she was sortof following me I guess. It must've been obvious I was into her because her friend picked up on it and asked me about it. Anyway we end up by ourselves and (a little drunk) without thinking I lightly put my arms round her and she goes to kiss me. I realise what's happening thankfully and pull away. I apologise and say I have a girlfriend. Awkward.
Hungover today and I feel terrible :( I love my girlfriend and would never mean to cheat on her but im so lonely without her and fighting temptation is increasingly difficult. Am I being too hard on myself or am I a douchebag? Should I tell her or would that just upset her and strain the relationship pointlessly? Advice please.
Most Helpful Girl
I think since you did not cheat, even being really drunk you stopped yourself from crossing the line, so you did nothing wrong. Flirting a little is okay if it is harmless, and the girl started following you around, you weren't following her. In the end you did not cross the line. Telling your girlfriend will only make her worry and maybe not trust you although you did nothing with the girl. But, you need to figure out your relationship because it is obviously not working for you right now. Tell your girlfriend you need her to set aside a certain amount of time for you and at least call you or something every day after work, she should always make time to talk. I would worry about that first and figure that out.0
Most Helpful Guy
Hurting your girlfriend to assuage your own guilt is a dick move. Learn from your mistake, don't put yourself in that kind of situation again.
Besides, you stopped yourself. Good on you for that.1