There is something my girlfriend wants to do that I really don't like. I'm not controlling, so of course the decision is hers to make. But I told her very precisely how uncomfortable it made me, and that I support her, but I didn't support this so I would prefer to not talk about it if she decided to do it. She's still thinking about it, but I would say she's almost dead set on it.
I've told her why I don't like it and how it makes me feel. Is the only thing I can do now accept this? Is there anything else I can or should say? I dont want to pressure her into the decision I want.
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Give her an ultimatum. You told her hey, this makes me uncomfortable. She apparently doesn't care how you feel. When you're in a relationship, you're supposed to respect each other. She doesn't respect herself by dancing around near naked for strangers when she doesn't have to, so how can she respect you. Give her an ultimatum, either she stops or you're out of the relationship. You obviously care about her, she just doesn't care.0