So I'm not going to deny the fact I've dated a lot of guys but each of them have hurt me in some way, whether they lied, or cheated and so now it's extremely hard for me to trust my current boyfriend not because I don't trust him but because it's hard to trust people in general, so how can I rebuild my trust and also how I do I tell my boyfriend without making it seem like it's only him I don't trust?
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You have to learn to let go of the past. You simply cannot drag past BS into a new relationship. If you do, you are being incredibly unfair towards your partner and it sets the tone for a very unhealthy relationship. It's exhausting to have a partner with trust issues. You need to work on this asap and it starts with accepting the past and moving forward and realizing your boyfriend isn't some asshole who should be treated like he's a bad guy. He deserves your love and trust, just like you'd want to receive it in a relationship as well. We've all been hurt along the way. It's normal and happens to everyone. But you need to work though those issues on your own before entering a relationship for that matter.0