so I recently met a guy offline he's 33 (Muslim) and im 19 and I really like him we recently went on a date together we went to the mall and movies but we got a motel together and this was the first date by the way and we wanted to cuddle but we end up having sex instead he didn't change his affection he also cuddle with me at the same time... nor did he change the way he spoke to me but now I kind of feel regret because he told me he was looking for a wife and he wanted to children but he also said he's not sure of having children at this moment and I really wanted a serious relationship but I feel like giving it up on the first date it is not really part of his plan or mine but as he took me back home I asked him what did he want out of this and he told me he didn't know yet does he think I'm a slut? Does he think I'm easy? or am I overthinking everything just go with the flow? also I text him back last night but he never text me back this morning. And im still waiting for a text what should I do?
Most Helpful Guy
He's older than you by about half your age! That should be a deal breaker right there, in my opinion. 😕0
Most Helpful Girl
A lot of people wonder if they send off the wrong vibe by sleeping withs someone the first date, however it takes two to tango, so its also his fault too. Is it common? no, has it happened many times though? Yes. You never know, I don't think he thinks you're a slut because if you were one, then you'd be sleeping with everyone lol. I think you're over thinking just go with the flow and don't wait for a text, text him again, the faster you'll get your answer if he's still interested.1