My boyfriend of 2 years, moved out 1 month ago, but we decided to still be in a relationship. We got into a fight before he left out of state for a work project, and he said "I need to be left alone". We didn't talk for a few weeks. Then he came back to state last week, and told me he will need his tv, computer back for work... I said "ok, can I have my garage fob back?" He freaked out and said I don't want to deal with you. I told him "if you can't come to see me for a month, we are done, let me know when you want to pick up your things", so he replied with "Monday?", I said "sure, glad that you wanted to end things, he once again freaked out and said "that wasn't the reason at all, I thought i was ready to talk, but I'll have to cancel"... I don't get it? Does he want to end things?
Most Helpful Guy
"sure, glad that you wanted to end things,"
you do realize that that was passive aggressive as hell right? clearly you are instigating
yes he wants to end things. moving out was a small step towards that without actually doing it. i would just send him a message "I will leave your things ____________. please leave the garage fob." if he freaks out explain to him that maybe in the future there can be something but clearly now things are still too sensitive for you two to work on things so at this point the relationship just needs to end for a while0
Most Helpful Girl
Sounds like you already ended things0