My boyfriend went to an event that and there were girls dancing raunchy and flashing their boobs. He went to the event months ago but it was just recently brought up and he got defensive. He was like "it was just like Mardi Gras." We were together a little over a month at the time. His excuse is that he wanted to make a party video. Should I be concerned or is he a guy just being a guy? The videos are still in his phone. I know he hasn't cheated on me or anything but is it wrong for me to be bothered by this? I know it's a man's natural instinct to look at other woman but why does he feel the need to act single? We've been together almost 5 months now. I just don't get it. I just need some advice.
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Do you have any reason to think that he is in contact with any of those women? Is he ignoring you in favor of the video? If not, who cares? Why is this any different than porn, or Game of Thrones, or a Girls Gone Wild commercial (do they still have those)?
These were almost certainly some random girls he didn't know and will never see again. They flashed their boobs, and that was hot, but who cares? He isn't having a relationship with them of any kind, right?
Had my girlfriend gone to this party, she'd have taken a video and excitedly brought it home to show me, and if I'd gone and taken the video, she'd have looked forward to watching it. The idea that the girls would threaten our relationship wouldn't even occur to her - because I devote much of my free time and attention to her, by choice. She has no reason to feel jealous or insecure. Is there something else that makes you feel that way with your boyfriend?0
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