Me and girl start flirting at work, she was shy so it escalated very slowly over the course of few months. I was so sure she liked me, and a lot. so i ask her out, turns out she is seeing someone. Seeing how guys are hardwired to believe the girl they like is attracted to them i shrugged it off and assumed i just misinterpreted signs. since then she has been on and off flirty then avoiding and ignoring then flirty and so on. now the more i get over her (i did have a few months to develop feelings) the more i realize that she was infact flirting, and HARD. now im kind of pissed she led me on for so god damn long when she had hundreds of opportunities to just mention the fact she was seeing someone, and what the f is she doing now. so do i have a right to feel angry? not that im going to get mad at her or show it but i just want to know if im over reacting
Most Helpful Girl
Or maybe you're still assuming she's attracted to you lmao1
Most Helpful Guy
Same thing has happened to myself and countless other guys.
The best think you can do is to forget about her and forget about her leading you on.
She really just liked the attention you gave her...
You feel guilty you fell for her, and are upset because all she had to say earlier was mention a boyfried... but she didn't on purpose...
You do have a right to be mad, but let out your feelings to yourself... and one day you will realize you are better than her and deserve a lot better than a girl like that.
Just take it as a learning experience and forget about her =-)0