I have been single for a year now, I've been focusing on myself for awhile and i think im ready to be in a relationship, the only thing is that when I look at my friends and other relationships and i see them arguing or not being able to make a decision on their own and having to double check sometimes if its ok to do something, etc etc. Those things make me just want to stay single and keep enjoying myself and not have to worry about everything that comes with a relationship.
Anyone else feels this way too?
- Yes, I've felt like thatVote A
- No, never felt like thatVote B
Most Helpful Girl
never felt that. i love being in a relationship, but I'm not upset being single either.3
Most Helpful Guy
If you really want to just stay single and not deal with the drama then just stay single. You don't need anyone else or a relationship to be happy anyway. Either you are happy regardless or you aren't a happy person regardless if you are single or in a relationship. You already had a prior relationship from what you told us, it's not like you have not yet experienced what it was like to be with somebody in a relationship.
It is better to take charge and make the decisions on your own instead of always can I do this or can I do that constantly and always asking for approval. It may be fine in the beginning but I think that will diminish the attraction from the girls that your friends are in relationships with. It takes hard work, and compromising is very important and essential to the success of a relationship. The more you are able to compromise and negotiate successfully then the less fighting and arguments would occur. Otherwise if you think that's too much work, and too difficult you can always be like, aw fuck that shit, I'll go my own way and do my own thing instead of being in a relationship with anyone and having to compromise with them all the fucking time all just in order for it to work and last.1