Started talk to a guy online for over a month. We talked evey day all the time via online, texts, and a couple phone chats. We talked about a future together and things we wanted in life and how much on the same page we were. He would use pet names for me and say how much he liked me. He lives 6 hrs drive away. One day he drove all the way here to meet me for only a short while and then drove home the same day. ( lots of kissing happened pretty much the whole time) A few days later it was his bday and he wanted to spend it with me. So i went to visit him for a long weekend. ( stayed at his place didn't go anywhere and had crazy sex the whole time) We spoke that night via text when I got back and agreed we wanted to see where it would go as we both couldn't get enough of one another. However ever since then... He's only talked sexual and not so much lovey dove anymore... I'm wondering how do I make him open his heart to me rather then be so sexual? I d see a future wih him and I'm starting to like him a lot. Iv never had anyone that I had so much in common with. Also he's 6 years older then me. I'm unsure if since we have talked about it before he doesn't talk about it anymore... or if he's just not into me as romantically anymore?
Most Helpful Guy
I have no idea how to get anyone to fall in love with anyone, but there are some things to avoid if you want to improve your odds of sustaining a relationship:
1) Getting too needy.
2) Not giving enough space when the other person needs a break from you.
3) Showering the other with love and attention too much to the point where they take you for granted, at which point people who don't can start to become more interesting.
4) Getting serious all the time and no longer having fun together.
5) Not being able to communicate your intimate thoughts properly, wanting to back out of situations or get into arguments.2
Most Helpful Girl
If people could get others to fall in love with them then no one would be single0