I've been dating this guy exclusively for a little over 3 months. We are both in our 40's. Yesterday we took his daughters and my son to a cove in the mountains to go swiming. We were all having a great time and then my boyfriend had an accident jumping off the cliff into the water. It was really bad and he ended up going on flight for lif to the hospital. I took the kids and drove 2 hrs to the hospital (we were way up in the mountains) bottom line is he's going to be okay. He has fluid in his lungs and a few broken ribs. But in the craziness I used his phone to call his dad to let him know and he could get to the hospital since he was 10 mins from the hospital and were 2 hrs. I look at his phone and there were explicit text messages to and from his ex who is married. I went to make a call to his dad and saw her name on the call log several times over the past few days. Then the park Ranger wanted to watch the video on his phone of the jump to see if he hit his head. I saw pictures of the ex and pics of her in underwear. He is in the hospital overnight and his girls are good. This has been really bugging me and now I don't know if/when to bring this up. I consider that cheating and I'm hurt really bad. I am not going to let this go and look the other way. Thought or opinions on what I should do apprec
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I would make sure he and his girls were okay and then pack my stuff and leave. For good.
I wouldn't even bring it up. Idgaf about what you have to say.1