My boyfriend and I have been a couple for about 8 months now, before that we were really close friends for a year.
All through our friendship he's been solidly there for me while I've been suffering quite badly with anxiety. He waited patiently until I was ready to start seeing someone and has just been amazing since then. He's put up with a lot from me because of how much he loves me, which he tells me often.
Unfortunately, since becoming a couple we've just not had time to actually enjoy it (if that makes sense). We move between his mums house, my parents house and his dads house on a weekly basis, we both work full time, my anxiety is off and on and he's really unhappy in his job. On top of that we are trying to save money for our own place.
For the last three weeks we've been bickering on and off, and most of it is my fault. I know we are taking our frustrations out on each other and constantly moving around is taking it's toll. The bickering doesn't last for long and we always talk through it within about 10 minutes. So I'm not worried about that. But I do feel really bad about it. Because he's constantly showing how much he loves me and he's always there for me, looking after me and bringing me out of anxiety attacks.
I really want to do something special either next weekend or the weekend after. I want to take him on a date or arrange to do something just to show him how much I appreciate everything he does for me and how much I love him back. I think we really need that time to ourselves with no family, no phones, just the two of us.
If anyone has any ideas I'd really appreciate it!!
Thanks so much in advance xx
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I like nature and road trips or taking long walks into nature , maybe camping.
If he likes that as much he would enjoy it. I think these kinda activities makes people closer together besides there's no cell phone and also no pricks around , so you give each other all the attention and love.
I hope happiness for you 2.1