I'm 22 and never had a boyfriend, let alone anything with a guy. I've hooked up with a few random guys at parties, had flirty friendships with guy FRIENDS, had one recent summer fling. BUT NOTHING ELSE.
Meanwhile EVERY SINGLE person I know has been in and out of MULTIPLE serious/longterm relationships, have friends with benefits, have rebound relationships, remain friends with that rebound. Get a new bf/gf, it becomes serious, they breakup, then go back to that rebound. Have a fling on speed dial, for when they are not in a relationship. Have one night stands, guys/girls telling them to come over at 1am. Constant, constant action in their life!
I've never had any of that, and I don't understand what I'm doing wrong? I feel like my fun young years are going to waste. I need something to happen!
Many people say i'm pretty. I dress well. Many of my friends tell me "this dude thinks you're hot". I'm generally shy, but I know how to have a conversation, and become pretty comfortable once you know me.
Most Helpful Guy
you need to approach the one you want, and stop expecting guys to do everything, which is what girls keep mistakenly do, because it (love) doesn't work that way, some of your friends or people you know where probably trashy sluts, why would you want that?0
Most Helpful Girl
They approached you for sex didn't they? You said you've had hookups.1