Okay so my boyfriend of 9 months has friends that are girls obviously and he lets me go through his messages when he text them, but when I ask him if I can read the messages of him and his baby momma he says "no, because that's none of your business" what's the difference? Is it honestly none of my business just because she the baby momma? She wants to be with him without a doubt and he already told her he will never get back with her, that their only talking because of the baby girl which is 2. What should I do? Or where should I not cross the line?
Baby momma drama !!! Ugh?
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Why are you going through his messages in the first place there should be trust. there really isn't any "baby momma" drama either your creating it. It sounds like your insecure more so with the mother of his child as I understand there is more of history there that obviously won't go away. you should trust his word that he wants nothing to do with her in regards of a relationship of being together but having a relationship (being cordial etc) for the best of the daughter. although I agree its difficult to be with someone who has kids, I myself have a son. For my situation my sons dad and I literally never talk unless its about our son, that being said his wife and I talk all the time through texting etc. She understands me more. I'm not going to say were best friends but I do talk to her about stuff and there is a line that I do draw with some stuff with her maybe try building a relationship with her see if that helps. I know its not going to be easy. but if I can put the past behind and do whats best for our son ( he cheated on me when I was 9 months pregnant and after with her, neither one of us having a clue) it took time of course to get this point of course but after almost 7 years I can honestly say my sons dad and I get along great because our son needs to see we can all get along and be there for him. because that's the most important thing1
You shouldn't need to be looking through any of his texts period.0
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