Help! How to tell a friend you don't want to be more than friends?

Okay!!! I really don't want to hurt this guy! I know he likes me, and he's a good friend. I've turned guys down before, but this case is different.

You see this guy doesn't have a lot of friends. He has aspergers syndrome and ADHD, which makes him socially awkward and hard for him to trust/make friends!

I care about him (he reminds me of my brother who has the same conditions), but I just don't like him like that! How do I "let him down easy"?


Have an opinion?

What Guys Said 1

  • I like the way you play.

    • What do you mean?

    • Show All
    • I'm genuinely serious about my question! I just graduated with the guy. I've known him for years, and I would not have said my brother has a serious condition if he didn't because that is stupid and wrong!

    • I know why you really asked the question. I already went to the fbi Its just a matter of time before the swarm in on all of y'all.

What Girls Said 1

  • Just tell him that you're not attracted to him.