So I have this problem.. Physically, I'm considered attractive by other people. However, I have the social skills of a plank of wood so whenever someone talks to me or gets to know me, they just lose interest, whether platonically or romantically. Does anyone else have this problem, and what have you experienced with it?
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I wouldn't say I'm 'good looking', but I am told I look above average. Certainly not undateable, based on looks alone.
But I have social anxiety, and am not so experienced with women (I have only been in 2 relationships, over half a decade ago). So I have no clue at all how to approach women, talk to them, and most importantly, how to get them to see me in romantic light. I seem totally lost because women are an enigma to me! :P0
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hmm, i dont have this issue as I'm generally okay getting along with most people. my issue is that i get misjudged a lot, as in I've been the target of countless rumours because of the way i look.
anyway, to help with ur social skills, take it step by step. start with just a smile, or even just saying hi. other people are so social that they'll just start a random conversation with you.
i was just recently at the train station all bundled up in a coat and scarf, and some guy was like "you look cosy!". i replied with "i have to be, I'm so bad with the cold!"
that turned into a conversation about how we love summer and the kinds of things we like best about it lol. see just little things like that.0