I have been with my boyfriend for 6 months now and everything has been dandy. Last night though (Saturday) when we were fooling around, he suddenly said "can we not have sex tonight. I just don't feel like it"..
Now, I wouldn't overthink on this one time incident if we had sex everyday. But we normally only have sex on the weekends when he stays over. So we just have sex like 2 or 3 times a week. I just thought maybe after a week he would want to have sex more than once? (Just Friday we slept together, that was all this week.)
I feel a little weird about it, kinda worried he lost interest? Should i wait till next weekend and see what happens, or should I send him a text and just ask?
He also cuddled and touched me even talked about sex with me after he said he didn't want sex
Most Helpful Guy
Men DO , on average , have much higher sex drives than women , that's obvious. But equally , even young men do not constantly crave sex every second , that is an exageratted popular view. Stress & tiredness will kill even a strong libido , that's often the cause , not you !!0
Most Helpful Girl
Maybe he was simply feeling tired. Just because he's a male, it doesn't necessarily means he wants to have sex all the time.1