I rarely pursue a guy unless I totally have the hots for him. I'm wondering if it's a turn off if I were to pursue this guy... We had matched on tinder (I'm 22, he's 26) and talked very little, I responded terribly late to some messages as did he, and at the end he agreed he definitely would like to talk somewhere else, but when I asked where, he deleted his tinder completely. Because I know his brother's girlfriends' brother, I know of him and have had a crush on him for years (but never have we met nor have I seen him in person). Would it be creepy to add him on Facebook now, since I know his fb? We only have one mutual friend which is his ex girlfriend, which is kinda weird too. I just really don't want to miss my chance with this guy... He seems like the quiet reserved shy guy, and I'm all about it. I believe he deleted his tinder bc it wasn't his thing but I guess he didn't feel the need to give me his number before. I feel like because I have a really pretty face a lot of guys think I'm messing with them when I'm not, too. I responded late to his messages to not appear too into him.. And now I feel like it was a mistake. I'm really a kind person and I just want to get to know this guy.
- Yes, pursue him, guys don't care89%(8)88%(22)Vote88%(14)
- No, don't pursue him, it's a turn off11%(1)12%(3)Vote12%(2)