ME and my ex hadn't talked in few weeks and last night he came over for a hook up. I missed him and wanted to be intimate one last time. He came over knowin i still had feelings too. After we slept together i asked him if he still had feelings and he said no and that we'd never get back together and he wants to he clear about that but he knew i still had feelings though and still slept wit me. Not to mention he drove far jus to hook up. Really far. He was very short with answers and cold towards me too. My question is do guys say this to their exes out of anger or do they really mean it? Im keep my distance but i just find it hard to believe he doesn't care like how he said he doesn't. Any opinions or suggestions? Thanks in advance!
Most Helpful Guy
Depends on the guy in question. If I hooked back up with my ex just to give her attention. No she's last thing I'd care about. Would I drive very far to sleep over... No. Why would hook up or sleep over if I'm not fully interested? Cause I do care about being a good guy and not being mean cause things didn't go right. Why would someone drive way out there to see you just only to play cold. GAMES. He cares. He just do t you to know he cares that much about you. And the truth is... You shouldn't. You two are now just best friends or what ever. Cut the tension and keep your guard up.1
Most Helpful Girl
No, he meant it. You were a hit it and quit it. He doesn't want you and he made if clear before you slept together so it's a bit your fault if you're hurt by it.1