So I decided I'm going to try and tell my best friend (of 5 years) that I like her. But this is going to be the most stressful and nerve-wracking situation of my entire life, as it no where compares to any of the other girls I've asked out.
See we've been best friends for so long that we're used to telling each other everything but i've kept my feelings inside and I can't really take it anymore. Though I feel like this should be done in person I know I wouldn't remember everything I have to say, and I wouldn't convey my point properly.
I've written out a very very long letter to her (10+ paragraphs?) and I'm considering giving it to her before I leave after we hang out (I'd be gone when she read it). Is this a bad idea? I mean I have a really well written letter that eases into my point, provides explanation, and then tells her that I'm fine with just being friends so whatever she decides is okay. But I don't have anyone to talk to about this, because I always had talked to her about girls.
Thank you for all responses, It's much appreciated!
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This is a sweet gesture, it shows you care enough to write 10 paragraphs about her that's really nice however telling her in person is honestly so lovely to hear, I know it's harder to say it in person and eaiser to write to her but it's really amazing to hear it in person. I know there were times when I wish I could just give my boyfriend my diary so he knows how I feel but I told him in person, it was also so much nicer to hear a respond faster and see theyre reaction0