I'm in my early 20s and I'm going to (try to) ask out a guy this week. I'm not sure whether I should ask him out to drinks with me or casually ask him to tag along to a fun place with my friends and me. I think he might be interested in me, but I'm not totally sure. And I'm really nervous.
On one hand, it's super nerve-racking to ask a guy on a DATE with just me and him. I would also be very embarrassed if I asked him out and he said no. On the other, I don't want him to be intimidated or feel awkward by being around my friends, or say no because of all the people he doesn't know.
I've never done this before and I just want to know how people do this. I know I'll be ok no matter what happens, but I just wanted to get some advice before diving into it with him.
- Alone - make it a date!Vote A
- With your friends - test out the waters to see if he is interested.Vote B