I've been single for awhile, around 2 years, and I really enjoy being single. I do whatever I want anytime I want without having to ask someone if its ok with them ( in this case her). I already forgot what's so good about being in a relationship. I do have to say that probly one of the things I miss the most is being able to have sex anytime I wanted other than that i love being single. I have wayyy too many female friends, some have bfs some dont but we are all just friends. can't imagine not being able to hang out with all those girls which are my friends cause of my "gf".
Can anyone tell me what are the perks of being in a relationship?
Most Helpful Girl
Not all relationships are the way your experience is or the way you know it from your friends or any other sources. Doesn't mean that every girlfriend would mind you having female friends.
If you feel restricted by someone maybe that person is not for you; sure you might not be able to agree w your girlfriend on everything but those things shouldn't be major.
IT all depends on what kind of thing you consider a relationship is and the way your character is. If you are unable to be faitful then exclusive relationship is not for you. But I guess you are speaking of exclusive kind of relationship, and where do I even start about benefits of it? Sex sure whatever, but someone you can share everything with, someone who is from your world and makes you happy, who is your best friend, support and someone you can alwayss relay on in the way they will give their best for you. It's not easy to find people we click on like that and it depends on what kind of relationships you settled before. So now you think all relationships are like that and not worth it. Love is great, people are what's wrong.
Most Helpful Guy
I think there really isn't any unless if your real goal was to get to the point where you want to have your family with children and a house and a car or something. Besides I hear that after people have kids sometimes their sex life changes and it isn't the way it once was before.
There's way more drama in relationships, as in dealing with possibilities of cheating, jealousy, and many other bullshit, having to compromise and put up with each other. But if you've been single long enough you may end up being like meh, whatever, to all relationships and stop giving a fuck about it all entirely, regardless of whether getting laid or not, as it won't be your focus and goals anymore.1