What do you think / feel when a guy flatly says what he wants? Would you prefer it?
Guys, what are your thoughts and experiences on this?
Most Helpful Girl
Doesn't this fall under the cold approach? Because if so, then I don't like it. Cold approaches never worked on the guy's favor, in my experience, no matter how attractive or unattractive he was. It just always left me too taken aback, tongue-tied, and wary - depending on the place, to engage with him in any positive way. With that said, I guess the direct approach is better than the indirect approach. It at least takes the edge off of not knowing his intentions and is less awkward and frustrating than the indirect approach. It gives you the chance to give them a firm answer because they clearly asked you, whereas you can't really assume what their intentions are when they go about it indirectly and outright reject them if you didn't like them, because for all you know they were just trying to make friendly, innocent conversation.2
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