How to ask a guy where you two stand?

I want to ask a guy I'm seeing where we stand. I want to know what exactly we are, if there is a 'WE' even.

I'm not sure if we're in a relationship or if he thinks of me as a booty call/just another girl. At the same time I don't want to come off clingy so he runs for the hills.

I just want to know if we have something that is going to grow or if I'm just wasting my time.

How should I ask him? Or should I just leave it see how things pan out?


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What Guys Said 3

  • If you are at this point of wondering about where you fit into this guy's life I believe you already know where you stand.

  • The age old philosophical question every girl ought to ask "what are we?"

  • Take your gut instinct for granted.

    If you have a feeling he's messing around, he most certainly is.

    If you have hopes that this might be real, just hold on and it'll bring itself up when the time is right.

    Good luck


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