Ok I'm currently 24 I have had no luck with women. I never had a girlfriend or even kissed a girl I'm focused on other areas of my life but this still creeps into my mind especially when I see couples at school. I'm just mentally exhausted I have nice guy syndrome I bore most women and the thing is I can't fake who I am I never call girls bitches or hoes and I never try to sleep around. I always respect girls but their not interested in this behavior I can completely understand bad guys are more entertaining. So I plan to throw a party for 25th birthday and officially close the door on this part of my life and honestly I have no regrets it isn't meant for everyone
Is it strange I wanna give up dating once I turn 25?
What Girls Said 11
not that strange to me... by the time i was your age, i'd already endured a run of bad relationships, but i stayed with a guy i was seeing (and had no chemistry with) just because i wanted to be done with dating.
i was almost 28 by the time my soulmate came along. so, obviously, i'm glad that i didn't settle for less. if you want to give up on it, i won't stop you, but i think you're selling yourself short.0
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Nah, it doesn't sound strange to me at all. I feel the same, because I've had no luck with guys. Been on dates, and none of them were my cup of tea. I'm turning 25 on October and I'm sick of attracting guys who are already paired off or guys that just never have the balls to talk to me. Even though I feel like I wanna give up, I'm not going to. I'm just going to take some time out from looking and when I least expect it I might find someone decent. Don't worry, not every girl likes the bad boy persona. Don't change who you are or completely give up.0
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'Nice guy syndrome'
😂 this site is just lol3
I don't think that's strange.
I'm 19 and I don't want to date, but I do want to get married. Everyone thinks their relationship plans are weird.0
I don't care/it doesn't affect me.0
It's interesting how all of the male weirdos who spend all of their time on the internet have never had a girlfriend. I wonder why.0
You poor special snowflake.
It's fine if you want to throw in the towel, but don't blame it on the fact that you're "nice." I promise there are probably several other things standing in the way of your dating life, and none of them have to do with you being "nice." But hey, it's easier to blame it on nice guy syndrome than to take a serious look at yourself.1
What Guys Said 11
What efforts have you made to improve yourself? You can get women being a "nice guy" but you need something catch their interest in the first place, and being nice just doesn't cut it. What makes you awesome to women? If you don't have anything, you need to find something. Throwing in the towel at 25 seems pretty dumb, especially when you have a good 50+ years ahead of you. I'm sure you'd be looking at yourself at 35 and thinking "man, I was really stupid when I was 25."0
Honestly, I couldn't care less.1
No it's not. Do whatever you please. Don't let the people tell you how to live your life. If you'd prefer to be single and independent and it gives you a clearer head do it! Stop stressing yourself and going through pain if you don't want or have to. Travel the world, enjoy your hobbies, pursue goals etc.0
Bro. You can flip this around. And by this, I mean nice guy syndrome. You're not a nice guy. You're a nice guy who doesn't understand women, and wouldn't call a woman a slag if she banged your dad and brother in a threesome while guilting you into taking her on dates without sex.0
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I'm with you there. Many more important things in life than trying to satisfy an entitled brat...0
doesn't mean u can't hook up with slots on tinder0
Listen, having a girlfriend is OVERRATED. Don't worry much about it. Haven't you heard the sentence saying like 'some women only worth it for fucking'. It's a fact.
If you want to fuck, go and contact a whore. Maybe they can even be hotter than a girlfriend.
And live your own life.0
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