I really don't know what to do, there's this Girl that I have known for almost a year. We're both 20 too by the way. We study the same course together, I had a huge crush on her at first, but I later found out that she had a boyfriend a few weeks later, and I moved on.
A few months later we got to know each other more, and we got really friendly. I have been on good terms with her the past 5-6 months, however In the past 3-4 months, I have grown a lot of feelings towards her, and I don't want to ruin her relationship.
We get along well, and have quite a bit in common, she seems really open, but doesn't mention much about her boyfriend. I'm 50/50 whether she knows I like her, she has also given subtle hints that she might like me a little too, but because of the boyfriend thing, it's awkward, and I don't want to be an an asshole and keep persuing her. I have tried lately not talking to her, but after a few days she contacts me.
I'm not expecting to end up with her, because she's with someone, but it's difficult for me to communicate with her when I really like her.
Should I remain her friend and not tell her? Or should I tell her my feelings and risk losing the friendship?
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Alright so two points.
-She has a boyfriend, doesn't matter if she doesn't talk about him, frankly it would probably be very boring if someone went on about their SO constantly.
-If you steal her away from her boyfriend, the same will likely happen to you at some point.
You can tell her you like her and it's too awkward to be friends, if you simply can't be friends. Maybe her relationship is shit. It's probably not going to bode well for you though.1
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