The guy I like texted me at 1 today and I responded. He hasn't texted me back yet. Should I worry that he is just trying to little by little lose touch with me because he's not really interested? Wouldn't he have responded by now if he was really interested? Fyi: I'm not creepy or text him nonsense or anything like that.
Most Helpful Guy
Well, it really depends on the frequency, means if this has happened only once then it's fine maybe he was busy or was occupied doing something, but if this is something that he does on a regular basis then it clearly indicates that he is not taking your seriously and the fact that he is not interested as much as you are.2
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Most Helpful Girl
Here's an an analogy for you so to speak...
I currently have a co worker who I know is attracted to me and has been texting me a lot nowadays. I'm not interested because I don't find him attractive and he's married! He's very nice though and although I respond to his texts, I never text him first nor do I make it a point to respond right away. Why?
1... I'm not interested
2... I don't want to give him the wrong idea.
3... it's not that important to me to respond ASAP as I'm not interested.
Conversely... for the guy I love and find very attractive and am interested in--a nuclear blast could be coming my way and I'd prob respond to his text before running to hide.
That's my perspective.0